Baggage claim!


The word, baggage, has such negative connotations for me. It seems to imply something that is extra or something that hangs on. It's like a growth or tumor, just one that might not be visible. Due to this fact, it is absolutely imperative that we are able to interpret whether or not that baggage is benign or malignant. Therefore, we must know not only the nature of our baggage but also whether or not we have any to begin with.
In my estimation, I clearly possess baggage. From a pro standpoint, it is good to know that I have it in order to examine its impact upon my life. For instance, if I were the product of an abusive household, that would have an impact on how I interacted with others. On the flip side, if I was the product of a nurturing and loving household, that would also have an impact on my interpersonal relationships. It is always good to understand how my upbringing may have influenced my life's baggage.
An additional pro of knowing one's baggage is that it keeps us grounded and humble. It is too easy for us to become self-righteous and condescending when we view ourselves as above the fray of humanity. If I realize that I have problems just like everybody else, then I am able to identify with the needs and concerns of others.
From a con standpoint, if I am always focused upon those bags in my corner, I can hinder my growth as a professional out of fear that my baggage will either become known or that they will devour me. Likewise, constant self-loathing lowers my confidence level. This then causes me to become introverted and unable to give myself freely to others.
There is no way that a pastor can be authentic if they are unaware of their own baggage. If you are oblivious to your own problems, how can you give yourself away freely? You are only able to give a perception of yourself. additionally, by being unaware of your own shortcomings, you have a tendency to portray yourself as superior or above others. How does allow you to be authentic and approachable to others?
I believe that we can find out what our baggage is through prayer, meditation, self-inspection and honest dialogue with others, preferably those who know us best. From time to time it is of benefit to gain the perspective of those who do not know us in order to find out how we are perceived at a glance by others. as we have seen in this workshop, there are also tools available for our consumption that will benefit our self-examination. In this instance, a tool like the Johari Window can be used in order to examine what dark and dank baggage may be lurking in the shadows or perhaps even mildewing in some lost corner of our minds, even unbeknownst to us.
It's never too late for spring cleaning - even in August!!